A lifetime of collecting memories often results in an excess of objects in our living environment. While these memories are precious, clutter around the home is a hazard for seniors. It can cause falls and other injuries. Many seniors must use a wheelchair or a walker that requires extra floor space.
Having a connection to “things” is understandable. Today’s seniors have lived through tough economic times like the Great Depression and World War II. It was essential to save anything that could be used again. Acknowledge their frugality and gently suggest finding a better place for the items. Often times, seniors reach a point where they realize how overwhelming their possessions have become. Focus on keeping the memories and not the stuff.
Dividing items into categories can create a smoother experience. The Keep category is everything that stays or will go into storage. Try not to store items that only put off the decision of disposal. The Give category includes those items to donate to charities. This can provide either extra cash or a tax deduction for the senior. The Sell category contains any items of value such as jewelry, antiques, or rare items. For your most valuable items, make sure to get referrals and use dealers who are willing to supply references. The final and, most often, largest category is Toss. Don’t be afraid to dispose of unnecessary items.
Using a Certified Relocation and Transition Specialist (CRTS) to assist will streamline the process and make it less stressful. The professionals at Marca Life Planning will help sort your items while carefully preserving your memories. They can provide an objective viewpoint and keep you and your loved ones on track.
Change is hard for everyone, but reorganizing and downsizing has many advantages. Seniors have a safer home and less to maintain. As the child of an aging parent, you can appreciate knowing that possessions have been settled according to your elderly parents’ wishes. Most importantly, you will no longer be left with the monumental task of settling affairs in the event of a crisis.